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Tuesday, August 9, 2011

Written 12 or so years ago,dedicated to Brian who answered a long-ago question

26 comments:

Devika Jyothi said...

Good photograph, Lorraine...and agree, written words have more impact than spoken words :)

Brian Miller? - he answered your 12-year old question to some meaningful conclusion? -- really? don't tell me!...but the dedication is good, if he did :)

love,
dev

ps: the blogger comment system was again giving problem, but seems now it might get through,

TALON said...

Your photo sure sets the stage, Lorraine.

Sometimes distance is exactly what's needed for healing to work.

Brian Miller said...

sorry i am late...been working all morning....hmm...wonder what i answered now...smiles. you know its good to keep communication open, words do help even if written and maybe over time talking will once again be ok...i am curious ont he question though...smiles.

BamaTrav said...

You may be too good to be true, a woman that would never say a word to me. Will you MARRY me?

Magyar said...

As always LL, I've cought up on that that I have missed... all just grand, as I step aside for a bit. _m

Michael Rawluk said...

That is a very cool image, Lorraine.

Lorraine said...

Dev, it was an easy deduction darling; twelve years ago it wrote this 'can I help through my words ' 'cause i couldn't be around people any more Brian responded

'perhaps you empower others trough your words as well...' on yesterday's comment


Thanks Talon :)

Brian read my comment to Dev and for all to read

Thanks Bama, that would be my
8th marriage proposal, I did once and once was enough but hey thanks for asking, I'm touched

Doug it makes more sense ifyou read yesterday's as always than you :)

Thanks Michael, that is cool ;)

Devika Jyothi said...

yeah i got that...but i still don't understand how he answered because you already knew you could help with your written words :)

may be he affirmed...and often we don't ask ourselves the right question....if we did we get the answer ourself -- like the answer is already there in your writing :)

see i have a very analytical mind! ;)
no harm to Brian or you or anyone else...just my clarity,

love,
dev

Devika Jyothi said...

Now, in the lines of yesterdays's post - don't tell me you broke helping others out!....I have been there, so i know...it could be a possibility :)

but know, you are whole, as we all are...and broken and patched up here and there as we all are...let's help each other, just being there :)


dev

Lorraine said...

Dear Dev, I am not whole I am in fact very broken in all the ways that you can be

Devika Jyothi said...

But Lorraine, i guess you won't disagree with me if i say, hearts have the habit of healing with time...whatever wrongs we may allege on time, time is a great healer...unless you keep pricking them...

but after a time, that pain seems a beautiful thing is a different matter -- is that masochism? a disorder? maybe :)

love,
dev

Devika Jyothi said...

anyway, i have stopped the habit of going and buying pain...since i can't have painkillers or sleeping pills for reasons i have already told you...

I know i'm talking too much today- now let me stop :)

dev

Lorraine said...

ofcourse Dev, I'm in perfect health, a very good reason nt to go out why ruin a good thing

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Devika Jyothi said...

or if I am your pain...i can very well keep off and still be your friend, when i need to be there, baba :)

Devika Jyothi said...

well, let me add....if you need me to be there..

well suffocation was a time for me as well...not anymore :)

You are making me talk more...now relax and think about it all...and tell me what exactly you feel,

dev

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Devika Jyothi said...

btw, i have not yet found anything very genuine 'about' the blogland - so my questions are always just for the sake of it!

dev

Lorraine said...

Dev you have to understand that you can't run a forum for comments on my blogs, on your blog you can argue anything away if you want, on your blog and yet you've disallowed the comments because they upset you, so you come here and expect what? that I will always reason away, that i won't ever get angy, and believe me I don't anger easily, so take what you deserve and be happy that I don't swear at you more often.

Devika Jyothi said...

i take it...and thank God atleat now we cleared it out--- So it is better to leave our way and not disturb each other's or anybody else's peace,

you too be happy always :)

love,
dev

Margie said...

Lorraine, I left a comment here yesterday but it's gone, sorry!
Summary ....Words are good not always ( at least for me) as I used my words not so nicely a long time ago in a letter to an ex-boyfriend and I ended up calling to say how sorry I was!
I had to as I knew I had caused pain to someone i loved!
Take care, my friend, x

Lorraine said...

Dev, hell no, of course I want you to remain a visitor, ok soI swore at you see how I deleted it It really wasn't meant for you but you said things thatprovoked me, and I had had enough Provocation for the last 3 montsh (and not frm you, so I deleted that nasty comment)

Hey Angel, the idea is that I so much wanted to help people but I could no longer be near them, I felt like someone had taken my skin off and when someone was near me it, hurt, that's why the cry of why can't words be enough, became x

Devika Jyothi said...

then why are all my later comments left there - take them off too :)

dev

Devika Jyothi said...

okay, your other messages too are there too...okay then let them be...though somebody reading here won't understand what the foul fundamentally was :)

dev